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Do you have the relationships you want? Our lives are filled with relationships, aren’t they. We have relationships with our family, our friends, our coworkers, and our lovers. Whether you consider a relationship good or bad, you most likely feel that the quality of the relationship has to do with the person you are in the relationship with. But have you considered that the common denominator in all your interactions with others is yourself?
With that in mind, let’s spend a bit of time looking at ourselves because when we understand ourselves, it is much easier to understand our relationships with others.
In last week’s article, I presented you with eight questions to consider, the first three of which were designed to have you look at yourself and how much you love yourself. This has to be first because it is absolutely the key to having successful loving relationships. Do you love yourself enough to be your true authentic self, to be genuine in all your encounters with others. So many people focus all their attention on their appearance and they seem to forget that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Your soulmate is looking for someone just like you. This means that looking like Jennifer Aniston or Angelina Jolie won’t bring your soulmate to you any faster than looking like you. Oh sure, most men would have an instant attraction to this kind of beauty, but if they actually got to know them, would they really want to spend their life with them? Most likely not. A soulmate connection goes a lot deeper than that.
If you want to speed up the encounter that will unite you with your perfect mate, get to know yourself. Be honest about who you are and what you want. Accept yourself. Accept the fact that you have always done your best based on what you knew and understood at the time. Based on this it should be easy to forgive yourself for your so-called mistakes. Understand that you didn’t come here to be perfect, just to be the perfect you. And that’s who you are. Love yourself, flaws and all. It’s what makes you human and interesting.
It’s what separates you from everybody else and what will allow you to attract the love you are waiting for. Love yourself unconditionally and while you are at it, do the same for everyone in your life. You’ll be amazed how much happier and at peace you will be if you can accomplish this one thing. Take full responsibility for who you are and for your own happiness. Your life will work best that way.
And remember, the more you love yourself, the happier you will be. The happier you are, the more loveable you will be. Isn’t that what you are looking for? It’s what we are all wanting and it is easier than you think. If you want to learn more about finding your soulmate, go to my website http://www.thesecrettofindinglove.com where you can get access to a series of free videos on the subject.
The Secret to Finding Love with Carol M Barrett 