Yesterday was Thanksgiving in Canada and I was so busy spending the day with those that I am so thankful for that I forgot to take a minute and send greetings to all my fellow Canadians. We here in the “Great White North” have so much, that I suppose we could do nothing else but give thanks. It could actually be a full time job for me, I think. But we are not here on this earth to do only one thing all the time, regardless how great a thing that is. Life is to be lived and so I give thanks often and keep going about the business of living and being happy. That’s what happened to me yesterday and so I just want to say a belated “Happy Thanksgiving Canada.” And to those of you who live just south of us I would like to say I am thankful always that you are our neighbors and friends. I admire your strength and courage and I love your beautiful country.
And now let’s move on to the business of eliminating the barriers that keep so many people from finding the love they are looking for. Every week I will be here, sharing secrets and tips that I have learned through my years and years of studying and researching the hows and why of living a happy life. As I have said before, there really is a secret to finding love. Some of us just stumble upon the secret and some have to look long and hard for it. I stumbled upon it while I was looking for something else and I’m eternally grateful that I did. Now I want to share it.
What I intend to share with you is not just theory, although it is based almost entirely on knowledge and wisdom gained through years of reading and studying. Everything I am about to share with you I have used successfully in my own life. Every step I have personally taken. I know it works because I’ve done it. I have used these things that I will share with you here in my blog to create a life filled with happiness beyond anything I could ever have imagined.
It is my goal, my hope and my dream that I can spread some of the magic that is my life with others. If this sounds a bit too much to believe, I promise that it is not that my life has been without challenges. I’m just like everybody else. But now that I know what steps to take, challenges are less frequent and much less overwhelming.
Finding that perfect love was one of the most daunting challenges of my life and when I found it, it was, I think, almost by accident although at the time I did devise and implement a very simple plan that actually worked to give me what I believed I wanted. It was many years later that I realized the power of what I had done.
We are going to be discussing many issues surrounding the mystery of why love is so easy for some of us to find and so hard for others. Let’s start today with a few questions that you can ask yourself to determine if you are accidentally sabotaging your efforts to find love.
1. Are you comfortable with the way you look?
2. Do you like yourself and see yourself as likeable?
3. Do you easily forgive yourself when you make a mistake?
4. Do you have a clear vision of the kind of man you want?
5. Do you believe your dream man really exists?
6. Do you believe that you will find each other when the time is right?
7. When you see couples who are obviously in love, does it make you feel good?
8. Are you happy and grateful for the life you are now living?
If you answered no to any of these questions, it is likely that you are creating resistance that is keeping you from the love you want. Why not go to my website, http://www.thesecrettofindinglove.com right now, rather than waste another precious minute, and check out the series of free videos that I am offering. They will shed more light on the things we do that make finding love so challenging. While there you can also take a look at my book, The Secret to Finding LOVE. It has helped others find the love they want, and it can help you if you let it.